Dear NiceGuy™
What if a girl was super nice to you, but you found her unattractive somehow (maybe her values are different from yours, maybe she’s not physically your type, maybe you’re just not for whatever the reason attracted to her) and she presents herself to you as a friend. She does nice things for you (buying you expensive gifts, comforting you when you’re sad, making you cookies, always being there for you, or just whatever.)Maybe you get the sense she might be interested in you, maybe you don’t, but you like her enough as a friend you want to keep her around, because maybe you hope this girl is just a nice person, someone who really, truly and genuinely cares about you as a friend and wants to be friends with you… so you don’t bring it up.
Or maybe you do, and she refuses to stop, even if you tell her really clearly “No” and she still won’t stop, even if you date other girls, she’s ALWAYS there, trying to get your attention.
Maybe after awhile she gets mad, she tells everyone how CRUEL you are for treating a NICE girl like her so badly. ”How come you’ll date those BITCHY CUNTY EVIL SLUTS YOU DATE but not a NICE girl like me, after ALL THAT I’VE DONE FOR YOU, you OWE me?”
Do you owe her your love? I thought not.
What if she gets so mad you feel physically threatened? What if she shows up at your house?
Would you start maybe feeling uncomfortable when other women started making grand gestures of affection towards you before you showed them you were interested?
How come girls like that are called psycho and guys like that are called nice?
